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7 Dirty IT Words: Don't Say These In The C-Suite
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rradina
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rradina,
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3/2/2015 | 8:21:37 AM
Re: Rules for thee but not for me
" That's because if they indulge too much in the nitty gritties and minute details, they'll lose sight of the big picture."

 

... and they will be probably be micro-managing their direct reports...
Broadway0474
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Broadway0474,
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2/28/2015 | 10:41:22 PM
Re: Can't
David, what reputation is there worse to have than being a whiner?! That's one of the worst. Perhaps being the downer is slightly worse.
jries921
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jries921,
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2/28/2015 | 10:01:23 PM
Re: Also don't say...
Personally, I take the position that the boss is the boss and that all bosses have their own individual strengths and weaknesses, and most are educable in time; thus, while one may see the need to be politely critical from time to time, gratuitous badmouthing of one's superiors is rarely, if ever, a good idea.  If you think the boss made a bad call, then say so and say why when it seems appropriate; but trash talk is demoralizing and rude, and should never be tolerated.
Broadway0474
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Broadway0474,
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2/28/2015 | 10:01:02 PM
Re: Can't
My favorite line is "everyone's plate is full." And you can't argue with that really -- if even the bosses are over worked. Then again, if that doesn't speak to a sick office culture ...
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2/28/2015 | 9:54:06 PM
Re: Can't
@Broadway, your comment made me think of one of my former bosses. No matter how legitimate someone's concerns were or how much they had on their plate, he would always respond with, "Make it happen." Excuses, legitimate issues, "cant's," and "buts" were thrown out the window and were not taken into consideration. These were not factors for him, which in turn could no longer be a factor for you. He never seemed to see the impossible. I guess that could be considered a good quality, but it was actually frustrating. He didn't see the picture, just the end result and you had to do whatever it took to make it happen.
Angelfuego
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Angelfuego,
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2/28/2015 | 9:49:46 PM
Re: Um
@Dave, I agree. I respect someone more when they say "I don't know. I'll get back to you with that," as opposed to someone pretending to know. We need to be okay with not knowing it all and we need to not judge others so harshly for their honesty about not knowing something. It is a strength and not a weakness to admit to not knowing something. A truly confident and secure person can admit to it.
jries921
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jries921,
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2/28/2015 | 9:49:21 PM
Candor is a good thing
Our business cultiure has long been caught up in maintaining the illusion of omnipotence, omnicience, and infallibility, but there are no real live human beings who actually have any one of these qualities, so it's not at all logical to pretend to that one does; it is even, in economic terms, inefficient.

So I have long maintained that those who don't know the answer to a question should say so and then commit to finding out the answer (but definitely do your homework before an important meeting).  Likewise, supervisors who do not have the expertise to know have any number of times demanded the impossible from their subordinates; thus it is the duty of any professional worthy of the title when faced with an impossible demand to say so and say why; and if the boss won't listen to reason, then maybe it's time to look for another job anyway (but there might be at least a tiny possibility that what he wants is actually feasible; so be careful).  And there are things employees should say "never" about (anything illegal or immoral); though it's very foolish to assume or state that a particular situation can never occur.

That said, tact and an air of reasoned confidence are important in all work situations, especially when dealing those who do not know you well.

 
David Wagner
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David Wagner,
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2/28/2015 | 12:05:32 AM
Re: Can't
@Broadway0474- Well, i think if you couch it as prioritizing, it looks like smart business. But I'm sure to some it looks like whining. Personally, I think if a person can't tell the difference it is either because you have a reputation for whining or because they'r lousy at their jobs.
Broadway0474
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Broadway0474,
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2/27/2015 | 11:43:08 PM
Re: Can't
David, wouldn't saying you have too much on your plate already --- what should I take off? --- count as a dirty word? Everybody has too much on their plate. Suck it up and make this happen! Sure, you don't want to be a doormat, but there's a fine line between not being a dormat and not saying no, no?
David Wagner
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David Wagner,
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2/27/2015 | 11:38:32 PM
Can't
The interesitng thing about "can't" is that it is almost never true. I've found "We can but we'll go over budget by 20%" is the better answer. Or "We can, but which of these ten other things on my plate should I drop instead."

Usually that shuts a manager up fast.
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